It’s Never too Late to Bloom or Come Back as a Different Flower
Are you stuck or in a mental funk this winter? Then go check out Debra Eve’s blog and book Late Bloomers, which is sure to inspire you or any boomer with a pulse to continue blooming and blossoming.
Debra Blossomed at Age 30 and 46
What does your life look like if you had just 10 bullet points to tell it like Debra did below?
Debra Eve (Elle) left a boring aerospace job where she managed contracts to pursue anthropology. Here’s her late blooming life, petal by petal:
- At 30, I entered UCLA to study Anthropology.
- At 32, I spent the summer in the California Channel Islands doing archaeology.
- At 33, I received an Ahmanson Foundation Grant to help Dr. Maria Gimbutas bring her final book to fruition.
- At 35, I excavated a medieval motte in Wales and a Neolithic passage tomb in Ireland.
- At 36, I earned a combined BA and MA in Anthropology, with a specialization in Archaeology.
- At 38, I took up Jeet Kune Do (Bruce Lee’s martial art) and eventually became a beginning class instructor.
- At 40, I backpacked solo across Europe.
- At 41, I learned sword fighting from a real-life modern Amazon while co-managing an Olympic fencing center.
- At 43, I bungy-jumped off a bridge in New Zealand.
- At 44, I attended screenwriting school (and discovered I had neither the desire nor the talent to write movies).
- At 46, I found the love of my life and got married.
My Late Blooming History and Petal Droppings
I’ve bloomed multiple times during my life and career. I began as a wallflower in high school. Turned into a wildflower in college. Entered the work world as a resilient Tiger Lilly (coming back season and season until I got it right) and then transforming into English Ivy — always spreading, covering lots of ground and spiraling upward and onward.

Which flower are you morphing into during midlife.
Photo credit: GrandIllusions.com from 2006 Chelsea Flower Show in London, UK.
Here’s my business card from a decade ago where I bulleted out my life in as few words as possible. I’m happy to say I have blossomed several dozen times over since then.
I would love to hear your life in bullet points or milestones in the comments below. I know Lauren Taylor Rowe just graduated with her law degree at 50 and that MaryAnn Fry just released her first book, Going Naked Being Seen.
These Monas are late bloomers with bullet points to share. How about you?
And you?
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Age 24Age 30 PR professional in Florida
Age 33 moved to Calif. where I didn’t know a soul
Age 35 Got job in high tech PR
Age 40 Became corporate executive
Age 45 Moved back to Florida & became consultant
Age 55 Began teaching college part time while I worked
Age 57 Remarried my first husband after not seeing him for 27 years. Retired from consulting
Age 60 began teaching college again full time
Age 61.5 about to start new adventures
Carol, thanks for sharing. What an incredible life you’re leading. Loved that you remarried same guy after 27 years. Retired than became unretired and are still blazing fun trails! Thanks for letting me get to know you.
My 3 milestones
1. Marriage
2. Kids
3. http://www.EllenDolgen.com
On bucket list- I too would like to bungy-jumped off a bridge in New Zealand & be mistaken for Meg Ryan in Mexico…
GREAT PIECE!
Ellen, soon you’ll be able to say top Healthcare Blog in the world. You’ve inspired me to host a menopause party in March. Can’t wait to make those MenoCosmos. Thanks for all you do for women in midlife and beyond.
Brenda, thanks for the shoutout! Love your site and can totally see the Meg Ryan thing
This is such fabulous serendipity, since I’m ready to reinvent myself again, looks and all. You’ve got a new fan!
Can’t sum it all up here, but I sure enjoyed reading yours. Let’s just say i am in Act 4! HA