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Category: Men & Dating

All I Want for Christmas is Sam Elliott

[ 0 ] December 7, 2014

Dear Santa: This year all I want for Christmas is walking, talking, kissing, cuddling-man and a lifetime supply of batteries for him. I’ve grown up and no longer want toys or boys. At 52 I want a man. As close as Sam Elliott as you can find, please. I’ve been a very good girl this […]

Supermoon Moments

[ 3 ] August 13, 2014

Sunday’s night supermoon was the biggest and brightest of the year. In fact, it’s the biggest and brightest it’s been in 20 years. Holy red, orange, backdrop. Larger-than-normal tides come in, creatures experience gravitational pulls and souls join. What shifts happened to you this week? I hope you howled at the moon. Get Your Free […]

Lost Souls

[ 0 ] April 28, 2014

I went to hear a terrific Irish band, Flannigan’s Right Hook, with a friend who swore I would love them. She was right with one exception. The crowd of lost souls circling like piranhas was incredibly distracting. The Brew Top was filled with families dining and singles from college kids to comb over boomers. Eighty […]

Valentine’s Day Truths & Consequences

[ 2 ] February 14, 2014

I just finished reading Loveology: God, Love Marriage, Sex. And the never-ending story of male and female. It was divine intervention that I had received a copy of this back-to-love-basics book by John Mark Comer, a groovy pastor and oracle of love in Portland. I had just ended a relationship that I thought would be […]

How to Vet a Man (Revised)

[ 0 ] February 9, 2014

If you’re in the dating scene and over 40, chances are you’re meeting men online. Online dating profiles are intended to spark interest and dates. Think of online profiles as marketing brochures without the Federal Communications Commission playing watchdog to monitor truth in advertising. Some men (and women) whitewash their marketing profiles. Mid-life women like […]

The 4 Magically Words Guaranteed to Mend Your Life

[ 2 ] November 15, 2013

Just three years ago my life was in shambles. A midlife crisis swept in like a Level 5 tornado and spit my love life, career, and most important relationships into a faraway ditch. My self-inflicted tsunami was brought on by my fear of aging, never finding the one, attaining enlightenment and leaving some sort of […]

Checking Your Date’s Digital Package

[ 0 ] November 5, 2013

If you’re dating again, chances are you’re checking out his total package — phone, physique and savoir-faire.   According to a survey by, the leading online marketplace for used gadgets, both men and women take note of the phone their dates carry. The survey of 1,000 respondents reveals these surprising results. In a romantic […]

How to Find Your Life Partner

[ 0 ] October 28, 2013

If your feet are cold, bed empty and heart ready to be in a 100% reciprocal relationship, I believe you too can find or attract your love in six month or less just as I set the intention to back in June. Before I manifested my life partner, I pondered my twisted love path. Come […]

10 Dating Deal Breakers Men Make (Part III)

[ 2 ] October 22, 2013

Today in part three of my five-part series on the dating deal breakers men make, I tackle the subject of testicles and texters. In both instances the man is pushing the wrong buttons – either his TV remote’s or his phone’s – but not his date’s.   Rule #5:  He Puts His Balls Before His […]

10 Dating Deal Breakers Men Make (Part II)

[ 0 ] October 15, 2013

If you missed part one, deal breaker #1 was about the care and feeding of your woman. Women like to be wined and dined so don’t insult us by trying to use your last Entertainment Book coupon for Chuck E. Cheese on date night. Deal breaker #2 was about men trying to sell us on […]